Legitimate Voyeurism and My Problem with Links

Hey I like it when people share their intimate feelings online. It makes me feel that people have more freedom these days; Not of the "freedom" with its formal definition, but of that kind that empowers them to be more "relaxed", even with their own beings.

Although I wanted to put some links I've been reading lately here, I don't know how to play with the templates to be able to put some. I used to have no problem with that with the old templates, since they were simpler and not as "black-boxed" as the recent elaborate ones are.

Anyways, my first "counteraction": How can I put links on the left hand bar? People?